Coffee with Toks

Welcome to Coffee with Toks, your moment to pause, sip, and chat about the joys and challenges of motherhood. Whether you’re facing sleepless nights or seeking reassurance as a new mum, this is your space to connect and find comfort.




Three Thought Patterns I’m Replacing in 2025
It;'s the start of the year and I’ve been reflecting on 2024- what I’ve learnt, what I’ll carry forward, and what I’m leaving behind. Growth isn’t just about adding new things t...
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How Do You Want to Feel? A question to shape your life and space
But today, this isn’t about designing a luxury space for your baby. I want to gift you this question—a question that has helped me navigate many of life’s hurdles: “𝐻𝑜𝑤 𝑑𝑜 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑤𝑎𝑛𝑡 𝑡𝑜 𝑓𝑒...
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What a Facebook Lockout is Teaching Me About Control
Last night, my Facebook account was suspended due to ‘suspicious activity.’ A quick search revealed that using multiple browsers simultaneously can trigger a lockout—something many small ...
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Invisible Clutter: The Hidden Mental Blocks Draining Your Energy (and How to Let Go)
  What's in your space? Take a moment—what’s filling your space right now?   If you found yourself glancing around, noticing the items and people that fill your days, you’re alr...
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Standing Strong: How to Build Resilience Through Life’s Challenges
In today’s instalment, we’re focussing on resilience—the ability to stand strong when life’s storms come our way. I hope this message encourages you to prepare for life’s challenges and s...
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We Are All In: Wellness for Parents
As someone who balances the demands of running a luxury baby boutique, coaching on mindset and entrepreneurship, and raising a family, I understand the importance of aligning pa...
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